Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Words That Wound: A Biblical Response to a Familiar Lie

 

Words That Wound: A Biblical Response to a Familiar Lie

Introduction

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” This phrase has been passed down as a shield against verbal harm. Yet it is not rooted in truth—it is rooted in denial. Scripture does not deny the power of words; it exposes it.

Anyone who has lived long enough understands that words can leave wounds deeper than physical injury. Bones heal. Bruises fade. But words often linger in the heart, shaping identity, memory, and perception. The Bible affirms what experience confirms: words matter, and they matter deeply.

Rather than minimizing speech, God calls His people to understand its weight, take responsibility for it, and use it for His purposes.

 

The God Who Speaks

The power of words begins with God Himself. In Genesis 1:3, God speaks light into existence. Creation responds to His voice. His words are not empty—they accomplish what He intends.

In John 1:1, Jesus Christ is called “the Word,” revealing that communication is central to the very nature of God. God reveals, commands, creates, and redeems through His Word.

Because we are made in His image, our words carry influence. While we do not create as God does, we shape environments, relationships, and hearts through what we say. Speech is not incidental—it is a reflection of the image of God within us.

 

The Power of the Tongue

Proverbs 18:21 declares that death and life are in the power of the tongue. This statement captures the dual nature of speech. Words can bring life—encouragement, truth, comfort—but they can also bring destruction.

James 3 expands this truth with vivid imagery. The tongue is compared to a spark that can ignite an entire forest. A small instrument, yet capable of massive impact.

Consider how quickly a careless word can escalate conflict, damage trust, or alter a relationship. Words move faster than actions and often penetrate deeper. Once spoken, they cannot be retrieved. This is why Scripture consistently warns believers to treat speech with seriousness and care.

 

Words as Weapons

Proverbs 12:18 states that reckless words are like sword thrusts. This is not poetic exaggeration—it is a spiritual reality. Words can cut deeply, leaving wounds that are invisible but real.

Many individuals carry lifelong scars from words spoken in moments of anger, neglect, or cruelty. Statements spoken over someone repeatedly can become internalized, shaping how they view themselves.

Scripture condemns gossip, slander, and false witness because they destroy both individuals and communities. These are not minor offenses—they are sins that fracture relationships and dishonor God.

Words are not harmless. They are capable of inflicting real damage.

 

Words Reveal the Heart

Jesus teaches in Matthew 12:34 that out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Our words are not random—they are revealing. They expose what resides within us.

A heart filled with bitterness produces bitter speech. A heart filled with pride produces cutting or self-exalting words. Conversely, a heart transformed by grace produces speech that reflects truth and love.

This means that the issue of speech cannot be solved merely by external control. It requires internal transformation. When Christ changes the heart, the tongue begins to follow.

 

Accountability Before God

Jesus warns in Matthew 12:36 that every careless word will be accounted for on the day of judgment. This statement elevates the seriousness of speech to a spiritual level.

Words spoken in private are heard by God. Words spoken in haste are remembered by God. Words spoken without thought are still weighed by God.

This should lead to a sober awareness that our speech is never insignificant. Every word carries moral weight because it reflects the heart and affects others.

 

The Healing Power of Words

While words can wound, they can also heal. Proverbs 16:24 describes gracious words as sweetness to the soul and health to the body.

Encouragement can restore someone who is weary. Truth spoken in love can redirect someone who is wandering. A timely word can strengthen faith and bring clarity.

Ephesians 4:29 commands believers to speak only what builds others up. This transforms speech from something reactive into something purposeful. Words are no longer merely expressions—they become instruments of grace.

 

Guarding the Tongue

James 1:19 instructs believers to be quick to hear and slow to speak. This is a call to intentional restraint. In a world that encourages immediate reaction, Scripture calls for thoughtful response.

Guarding the tongue involves pausing before speaking, examining motives, and considering the impact of our words. It requires humility and self-control.

At times, the most faithful response is silence. Wisdom is not always found in speaking, but often in restraint.

 

Responding to Hurtful Words

When we are wounded by words, Scripture does not tell us to deny the pain. Instead, it directs us toward forgiveness, freedom from bitterness, and trust in God’s justice.

Jesus Himself endured mocking, false accusations, and verbal abuse. Yet He did not retaliate. He entrusted Himself to the Father.

Believers are called to respond in the same way—not by pretending words do not hurt, but by refusing to allow those wounds to produce sin in return.

 

Redeeming Our Words

If words carry such power, they must be used intentionally. Colossians 4:6 teaches that our speech should always be gracious, seasoned with salt.

This means speaking truth without harshness, correction without cruelty, and encouragement without flattery. Our words should reflect the character of Christ.

Speech becomes a form of ministry when it is used to build, guide, and strengthen others.

 

Conclusion

The saying that words cannot hurt is false. Words carry immense power. They can wound deeply, shape identity, and influence lives.

But by God’s grace, they can also heal, restore, and give life. The responsibility of the believer is not to deny the power of words, but to steward it faithfully.

Let us be people whose words reflect truth, grace, and the character of Christ—speaking life in a world that is often marked by harm.

 

©2026 Steven Miller Ministries

Not Everyone Who Says 'Lord': A Teaching on Matthew 7:21–23

 

Not Everyone Who Says 'Lord': A Teaching on Matthew 7:21–23

 

Introduction

Matthew 7:21–23 stands as one of the most sobering warnings ever spoken by Jesus Christ. These words come at the conclusion of the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus contrasts true righteousness with outward religiosity. This passage forces us to confront a reality many would rather ignore: it is possible to appear spiritual, to speak Christian language, and even to be involved in ministry activity—yet still be unknown to Christ.

The Danger of Verbal Profession Without Obedience

Jesus begins with a striking statement: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven.” This immediately dismantles the assumption that verbal confession alone guarantees salvation. The repetition of 'Lord' suggests sincerity and intensity. Yet sincerity is not the standard—obedience is.

Jesus clarifies that entrance into the kingdom belongs to “the one who does the will of my Father.” This does not mean salvation is earned by works, but that genuine faith inevitably produces obedience. A transformed heart results in a transformed life.

The Illusion of Spiritual Activity

In verse 22, Jesus describes people who will stand before Him on the day of judgment with confidence in their religious activity. They claim to have prophesied, cast out demons, and performed mighty works in His name. These are not casual observers of religion—they are deeply involved participants.

This reveals a critical truth: spiritual activity is not the same as spiritual authenticity. It is possible to serve in ministry, speak in religious terms, and even witness apparent results, while still lacking a genuine relationship with Christ.

The Central Issue: Relationship, Not Performance

The most chilling words come in verse 23: “I never knew you; depart from me.” Jesus does not evaluate their works—He exposes their lack of relationship. The issue is not that they lost salvation, but that they never truly belonged to Him.

To be 'known' by Christ speaks of an intimate, personal relationship marked by repentance, faith, and submission. These individuals had religious credentials, but they lacked a transformed heart. Their lives were marked by lawlessness—a refusal to truly submit to God’s authority.

Lawlessness: The Hidden Reality

Jesus calls them “workers of lawlessness,” exposing the disconnect between their outward actions and inward condition. Lawlessness does not always appear as blatant rebellion—it can exist beneath a surface of religious activity. It is a life that ultimately resists God’s rule, even while using His name.

Three Sobering Truths

First, profession without obedience is empty. Words alone do not save.
Second, works without relationship are insufficient. Ministry cannot replace genuine faith.
Third, familiarity without transformation is dangerous. Being around spiritual things does not equal being changed by Christ.

A Call to Self-Examination

This passage is not meant to create panic in true believers, but to bring clarity and honesty. It calls each person to examine whether their faith is real or merely external.

The question is not whether we have said the right things or done religious works, but whether we truly know Christ and are known by Him. True salvation produces a life that increasingly reflects obedience to God’s will.

Conclusion

Matthew 7:21–23 confronts the difference between empty religion and genuine salvation. It calls us away from superficial faith and into a real, living relationship with Jesus Christ. True Christianity is not about appearance—it is about transformation.

 

©2026 Steven Miller Ministries

Monday, March 30, 2026

Seeing as God Sees: A Teaching on 1 Samuel 16:7

 

Seeing as God Sees: A Teaching on 1 Samuel 16:7

 

“Humans do not see what the Lord sees, for humans see what is visible, but the Lord sees the heart.”

Introduction

In a world dominated by appearance, achievement, and outward success, 1 Samuel 16:7 stands as a direct confrontation to human thinking. This verse does more than correct Samuel—it reveals the very nature of how God evaluates people. It challenges our assumptions, exposes our misplaced priorities, and calls us to a deeper understanding of spiritual reality.

What God says in this moment reshapes how we understand leadership, calling, and even our own walk with Him. If we misunderstand this principle, we will consistently value the wrong things. But if we grasp it, it will transform how we live.

The Context: A Lesson in Misguided Evaluation

Samuel arrives at Jesse’s house to anoint a new king. As he sees Eliab, he immediately assumes this must be the Lord’s anointed because of his appearance. This reaction reveals how deeply ingrained outward evaluation is—even in a prophet.

God’s response is immediate and corrective. He rejects Eliab, not because outward qualities are meaningless, but because they are not ultimate. This moment exposes a critical truth: spiritual discernment requires more than visible evidence.

The Great Contrast: Human Sight vs. Divine Insight

“Humans see what is visible.” This is not merely a statement of limitation—it is a diagnosis of human tendency. We are drawn to what is measurable, impressive, and noticeable. We equate visibility with value.

But God declares, “the Lord sees the heart.” The heart represents the inner life—motives, desires, convictions, and faith. It is the control center of a person’s spiritual condition. God’s evaluation penetrates beyond behavior into intention.

A Tale of Two Kings: Saul and David

Saul was chosen in part because he looked like a king. He stood taller than others and carried the outward presence of leadership. Yet his reign revealed a heart that struggled with obedience and trust in God.

David, on the other hand, was overlooked—even by his own family. Yet his unseen life told a different story. In the fields, away from public recognition, he developed trust, courage, and devotion to God.

This contrast reveals a critical truth: what qualifies a person before God is often formed in hidden places, not public platforms.

What Does It Mean That God Sees the Heart?

When Scripture speaks of the heart, it refers to the deepest aspects of a person’s being. It includes motives, desires, affections, and intentions. God is not merely observing actions; He is discerning why those actions exist.

This means that two identical actions can be evaluated very differently by God depending on the heart behind them. Outward righteousness can coexist with inward corruption, but God is never deceived.

Implications for the Believer

First, we must reject the temptation to build our identity on outward measures. Success, recognition, and appearance may influence how others see us, but they do not determine how God sees us.

Second, we must exercise caution in how we evaluate others. It is easy to elevate charisma and gifting while overlooking character. Yet God prioritizes integrity over impressiveness.

Third, we must intentionally cultivate our inner life. This involves prayer, repentance, obedience, and a continual alignment of our desires with God’s will.

The private life of a believer is not secondary—it is foundational.

Christ: The Ultimate Expression of This Truth

Jesus Christ embodies this principle perfectly. He did not come with outward splendor or worldly appeal. Many rejected Him because He did not meet their expectations of what a Savior should look like.

Yet He was the chosen One of God. This reveals how dangerous it is to rely on outward evaluation. Without spiritual discernment, people can completely miss what God is doing.

Conclusion

1 Samuel 16:7 calls us to a fundamental shift in perspective. God is not looking for outward impressiveness—He is looking for inward faithfulness.

The question is not, “How do I appear?” but rather, “What is the condition of my heart before God?”

If we embrace this truth, we will begin to pursue what truly matters—not the approval of people, but the approval of God.

 

©2026 Steven Miller Ministries


Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Growing in Grace and Assurance, A Teaching on 2 Peter 1:2–15

 

Growing in Grace and Assurance

A Teaching on 2 Peter 1:2–15

Text Focus: 2 Peter 1:2–15 (ESV)
Theme: The believer’s calling to grow in grace, pursue godliness, and confirm the reality of faith through a fruitful life.

Introduction: A Faith That Must Grow

Second Peter 1:2–15 is one of the clearest passages in the New Testament on the connection between salvation and spiritual growth. Peter is writing to believers who have already received “a faith of equal standing” through the righteousness of Jesus Christ. He is not questioning whether salvation is by grace. He is not placing believers back under a system of human merit. Instead, he is showing that the grace that saves also begins a transforming work in the life of the believer.

This passage speaks to a danger that is still common in the church: the idea that a person can profess Christ and yet remain permanently unchanged, spiritually careless, and content with little or no growth. Peter will not allow that kind of thinking. He teaches that those who truly know the Lord are to pursue maturity with seriousness, diligence, and gratitude. Growth is not the cause of salvation, but it is one of the clearest evidences that salvation is real.

Peter’s tone is especially powerful because he writes with the awareness that his earthly life is nearing its end. These are not casual words. They are the urgent words of a shepherd who wants the people of God to stand firm after he is gone. What he emphasizes, therefore, deserves our close attention. He wants believers to understand what God has provided, what God requires, what spiritual fruit looks like, and why these truths must never be forgotten.

1. Grace and Peace Are Multiplied Through the Knowledge of Christ (v. 2)

Peter opens with a prayerful blessing: “May grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” This is more than a polite greeting. It establishes the atmosphere of the whole passage. The Christian life begins with grace, continues in grace, and grows deeper through the true knowledge of God.

Grace is God’s undeserved favor toward sinners. Peace is the settled reconciliation and wholeness that flow from being made right with God through Christ. Peter says that these are “multiplied” through knowledge—not mere information, but a living, relational, growing knowledge of the Lord. A believer may know many religious facts and still be spiritually thin. But where there is true knowledge of Christ, grace is freshly appreciated and peace is increasingly enjoyed.

This is an important reminder for teachers and churches alike. Growth is not sustained by novelty, gimmicks, or emotionalism. It is sustained by a deepening knowledge of who God is, what Christ has done, and what His promises mean for daily life. The more clearly believers see Christ, the more they understand grace, and the more stable their peace becomes.

2. God Has Already Provided Everything Necessary for Life and Godliness (vv. 3–4)

Peter then makes one of the most encouraging statements in the passage: “His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness.” That sentence sweeps away every excuse that suggests God has somehow left His people spiritually under-equipped. The believer is not left to create holiness out of personal strength. God Himself supplies what is needed for spiritual life and godly living.

Notice the source: His divine power. The Christian life is not powered by personality, religious habit, or mere self-discipline. It is sustained by the active power of God. Notice also the extent: all things that pertain to life and godliness. Peter is not saying believers have been given everything they might ever desire in a worldly sense. He is saying they have been given everything truly necessary to know God, follow Christ, resist corruption, and mature in holiness.

This provision comes “through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence.” Once again, Peter anchors growth in knowing God. The call of God is not only a summons out of darkness; it is a summons into His glory and moral excellence. The God who saves sinners calls them into a new kind of life, one that reflects His character.

Peter adds that God has granted believers “his precious and very great promises.” Through those promises, believers become “partakers of the divine nature,” having escaped the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. This does not mean believers become divine in essence. Rather, it means they are brought into real participation in a new life shaped by God’s character. They are no longer defined only by the old patterns of fallen humanity. In union with Christ, they are being remade.

The world is corrupted by sinful desire. That corruption is not merely around us; apart from grace it also rules within us. But the gospel does more than forgive guilt. It breaks the dominion of corruption and sets the believer on a new path. God’s promises strengthen faith, redirect desire, and produce a life that increasingly reflects holiness. This is why biblical promises matter so deeply in Christian teaching: they are not decorative truths. They are instruments God uses to shape His people.

3. Because God Has Provided So Much, Believers Must Make Every Effort (v. 5)

Verse 5 begins with the words, “For this very reason.” Peter is drawing a conclusion from everything he has just said. Because God has graciously supplied what is needed for life and godliness, believers must respond with earnest diligence. Divine provision never cancels human responsibility; it establishes and motivates it.

Peter says, “make every effort.” That language is active, intentional, and serious. The Christian life is not passive drifting. It is not spiritual laziness decorated with orthodox vocabulary. Believers are to apply themselves to growth. This effort is not an attempt to earn acceptance with God, but a response to the grace already given in Christ.

This balance is crucial in teaching ministry. Some Christians become discouraged because they think effort must mean legalism. Others excuse complacency by saying grace means effort is unnecessary. Peter leaves room for neither error. Grace is the foundation, but diligence is the response. God works in His people, and therefore His people must work out what He is working in them.

4. The Ladder of Spiritual Maturity (vv. 5–7)

Peter then lists a series of qualities believers are to pursue: faith, virtue, knowledge, self-control, steadfastness, godliness, brotherly affection, and love. These qualities are not random. They form a picture of a well-rounded Christian life.

Faith is the foundation. Peter begins there because all true spiritual life starts with trusting Christ. Without faith, the rest becomes moralism. But where faith is genuine, it does not remain isolated. It seeks expression in character and conduct.

To faith, believers are to add virtue—moral excellence. Genuine faith produces a desire to live in a way that is fitting for one who belongs to Christ. It is not enough to claim correct doctrine while tolerating moral compromise. A Christian should increasingly desire what is honorable, upright, and pleasing to God.

To virtue, Peter says, add knowledge. This speaks of discernment and understanding. Christian zeal without truth can become misdirected, while truth without virtue can become cold and hypocritical. The believer must grow in both moral seriousness and biblical understanding.

To knowledge, add self-control. Knowledge alone does not conquer the flesh. A person may know what is right and still fail to govern passions, appetites, words, and impulses. Self-control is the Spirit-shaped ability to say no to sinful desires and yes to what honors Christ.

To self-control, add steadfastness. This is perseverance under pressure. Many people begin with enthusiasm, but the test of maturity is whether they continue when obedience becomes costly. Steadfastness refuses to abandon Christ when trials, temptations, disappointments, or delays press in.

To steadfastness, add godliness. This refers to a life ordered around reverence for God. It is not a thin outward religiosity, but a deep orientation of the heart toward the Lord. Godliness affects worship, priorities, speech, decisions, and habits. It is what happens when the reality of God becomes central rather than occasional.

To godliness, add brotherly affection. The Christian life is not meant to be pursued in loveless isolation. Those who belong to Christ are joined to one another. Genuine godliness will show itself in warm, practical concern for fellow believers. It does not merely tolerate the brethren; it loves them as family.

Finally, to brotherly affection, add love. This is the broad, sacrificial, Christlike love that reflects the heart of God. It is the crown of the list because love fulfills the moral direction of all the others. Faith that matures properly will lead to a life marked not only by self-discipline and perseverance, but by genuine love for God and for others.

5. These Qualities Must Not Merely Exist; They Must Increase (vv. 8–9)

Peter does not say that it is enough for these qualities to appear in minimal form. He says, “If these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Growth is the point. Spiritual life is expected to move forward.

A fruitful Christian is not a sinless Christian, but a growing one. There is increasing evidence that Christ is shaping the inner life and outward conduct. Such a believer is not spiritually idle. The knowledge of Christ is becoming productive—bearing fruit in character, endurance, usefulness, and love.

By contrast, Peter says the person who lacks these qualities is “so nearsighted that he is blind, having forgotten that he was cleansed from his former sins.” This is a sobering diagnosis. Spiritual stagnation does not happen in a vacuum. It reflects a kind of moral myopia. The person loses sight of what Christ has done, forgets the meaning of cleansing, and begins to live as though conversion had little practical significance.

Peter is not teaching that true salvation is maintained by flawless performance. He is warning that a barren life is spiritually dangerous. A professing believer who is unconcerned about growth gives reason for serious self-examination. Forgetfulness of grace often leads to carelessness in holiness. That is why faithful teaching must continually bring believers back to the gospel—not only for comfort, but also for clarity and correction.

6. Diligence Strengthens Assurance (vv. 10–11)

Peter continues: “Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to confirm your calling and election.” He is not suggesting that believers create God’s call or cause God’s electing grace. Rather, he is teaching that the reality of God’s work is confirmed in the observable fruit of a transformed life.

Assurance is not meant to rest on empty claims, vague religious memory, or comparison with others. It is strengthened as believers see the evidence of grace at work in them. As faith produces virtue, knowledge, self-control, steadfastness, godliness, brotherly affection, and love, the believer gains increasing confirmation that God has indeed called and saved him.

Peter adds, “for if you practice these qualities you will never fall.” The point is not sinless perfection or the impossibility of stumbling in any sense. Rather, a diligent life of growth guards believers from spiritual collapse, from the ruinous effects of neglect, and from the instability that comes with a barren profession.

Then comes a beautiful promise: “for in this way there will be richly provided for you an entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” Every true believer enters the kingdom by grace alone, through Christ alone. Yet Peter speaks of a rich entrance—one marked by the joy, confidence, and fruitfulness of a life that has been genuinely shaped by the gospel. He is calling believers not merely to arrive, but to arrive as those whose lives bore the marks of faithful growth.

7. Mature Believers Still Need Repeated Reminders (vv. 12–15)

At this point Peter explains why he writes with such repetition and insistence. He says he intends always to remind them of these qualities, though they already know them and are established in the truth they have. This is a crucial lesson for Christian teaching. People do not only need new information; they need faithful remembrance of old truth.

One of the great errors in spiritual life is the assumption that familiarity equals maturity. A believer may know the right words, affirm the right doctrines, and still drift in practice. Peter understands that truth must be repeatedly brought to mind because forgetfulness is one of the ongoing weaknesses of fallen people.

Peter describes his body as a tent that will soon be put off, as the Lord Jesus Christ had made clear to him. He knows his death is near. Yet rather than turning inward, he gives himself to the work of strengthening the church. This is pastoral faithfulness. He wants the people of God to be able, after his departure, to recall these things. He labors for their long-term stability, not merely their momentary encouragement.

This also highlights the importance of written teaching, repeated exposition, and doctrinal clarity in the church. Faithful ministry does not merely inspire for a moment; it leaves behind truth that believers can return to again and again. Peter knows he will not always be physically present, so he anchors the church in words that will continue to speak after his death.

8. Teaching Applications for the Church Today

This passage offers several important lessons for the modern church. First, salvation must never be reduced to a one-time verbal profession with no expectation of transformation. Peter teaches that those who truly know Christ must pursue growth. A church that minimizes holiness in the name of grace has misunderstood grace itself.

Second, believers must be taught both dependence and diligence. We depend completely on God’s power, promises, and grace. At the same time, we are responsible to make every effort. Healthy Christian teaching avoids both passivity and pride.

Third, churches should place strong emphasis on spiritual formation rather than mere attendance or external activity. Peter’s list of virtues reminds us that the goal is not simply busyness in religious settings, but Christlike character.

Fourth, assurance should be handled biblically and pastorally. False assurance is dangerous, but so is needless instability. Peter shows that assurance is strengthened as believers see the fruit of grace increasing in their lives. Shepherds should therefore point people both to the finished work of Christ and to the sanctifying work Christ produces.

Finally, repetition in preaching and teaching is not weakness. It is wisdom. Believers need steady reminders of foundational truth. Churches do not drift toward deeper holiness by accident; they are strengthened through faithful, repeated, Christ-centered instruction.

Conclusion: The Gospel Produces a Growing Life

Second Peter 1:2–15 presents a deeply balanced view of the Christian life. God is the giver. He grants grace, peace, power, promises, calling, and cleansing. Yet the believer must respond with earnest diligence. The result is a life that grows in holiness, bears fruit, confirms the reality of faith, and presses forward toward the eternal kingdom.

This passage should both comfort and challenge us. It comforts us by reminding us that God has not left us empty-handed. Everything necessary for life and godliness has been granted in Christ. It challenges us by exposing the danger of spiritual stagnation. The right response to grace is not passivity, but perseverance.

Where these qualities are increasing, there is usefulness. Where they are neglected, there is blindness and barrenness. Therefore, Peter calls the church to remember, pursue, and practice what accords with the gospel. The Christian life is not merely about having once begun. It is about continuing, growing, and finishing well.

A true faith is a growing faith. A true knowledge of Christ is a fruitful knowledge. And a true teacher, like Peter, does not flatter people into complacency, but lovingly reminds them of the path of grace-fueled godliness.

Final Exhortation

Let every believer ask: Am I growing, or am I drifting? Am I adding to faith the qualities Peter describes, or have I become spiritually careless? The answer is not found in panic, nor in self-salvation, but in returning to Christ, trusting His promises, and pursuing the life He calls His people to live.

Do not be content with a profession that bears little fruit. Seek the Lord. Grow in grace. Make every effort to walk in the strength God provides. And let the reality of your calling be increasingly seen in a life shaped by truth, holiness, perseverance, and love.

Teaching Summary

Passage Emphasis

Teaching Insight

Grace and peace

These are multiplied through the growing knowledge of God and of Jesus Christ.

Divine provision

God has already granted everything necessary for life and godliness.

Spiritual effort

Believers must make every effort in response to grace, not in place of grace.

Virtue list

Faith must mature into character, discernment, endurance, godliness, and love.

Assurance

A fruitful life helps confirm the reality of calling and election.

Reminder

Even established believers need repeated reminders of foundational truth.

 

© 2026 Steven Miller Ministries

The Things God Hates, A Sobering Look at Proverbs 6:16–19

 

The Things God Hates

A Sobering Look at Proverbs 6:16–19

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Proverbs 6:16–19 gives one of Scripture’s clearest and most searching summaries of the attitudes and actions that offend the holiness of God. Far from being a mere list of moral failures, these verses expose the deep corruption of the fallen heart and call the believer to humility, truth, purity, and peace.

Introduction

In a culture that often emphasizes that “God is love,” many people overlook an equally serious truth: God also hates. That statement may sound unsettling to modern ears, but it is neither harsh nor inconsistent with His character. God’s hatred is not sinful irritation or unstable passion. It is His holy opposition to everything that is evil, false, cruel, and corrupt. Because God is perfectly righteous, He must oppose what contradicts His nature.
Proverbs 6:16–19 confronts us with that reality in direct language. These verses are not included in Scripture merely to inform us about bad behavior in general. They are intended to awaken the conscience, expose the heart, and teach us how seriously God regards sin. This passage moves from the inward disposition of pride to the outward destruction of lies, violence, and division. It shows that sin is never a light matter before a holy God.

At the same time, this text is not given so that we may point fingers at others while ignoring ourselves. It is a mirror for the soul. It calls us to examine our own attitudes, words, motives, and relationships. And when it exposes us, it drives us not to despair, but to repentance and to the mercy found in Jesus Christ.

The Passage

“There are six things that the LORD hates,
seven that are an abomination to him:
haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
and hands that shed innocent blood,
a heart that devises wicked plans,
feet that make haste to run to evil,
a false witness who breathes out lies,
and one who sows discord among brothers.”
— Proverbs 6:16–19 (ESV)

Understanding the Language

The phrase “six things… seven” is a Hebrew literary form used for emphasis. It communicates completeness and weight. The writer is not saying that these are the only sins God hates, but that this list is a concentrated summary of the kinds of sins that especially reveal human corruption.

The term “abomination” is especially strong. It describes something detestable, loathsome, and morally repulsive before God. This is not mild disapproval. These sins are offensive because they stand in direct contradiction to God’s holiness, truth, justice, and love. What God hates, His people must never learn to tolerate.

1. Haughty Eyes (Pride)

Pride stands first in the list, and that is not accidental. “Haughty eyes” describe the lifted look of arrogance—a spirit that exalts itself above others and, ultimately, above God. Pride is the refusal to bow, the insistence on self-importance, and the inward posture that says, “I know better, I deserve more, I stand above.”

Pride is especially dangerous because it often hides beneath respectable appearances. A person may seem disciplined, capable, or even religious, yet still possess a proud heart. That pride may show itself in contempt, stubbornness, an unwillingness to receive correction, or a subtle pleasure in feeling superior to others. God hates pride because it competes with His glory and resists His rule.

Humility, by contrast, is not weakness. It is spiritual sanity. It is the recognition that we are creatures, not the Creator; sinners, not the Savior. The more clearly we see God, the less room remains for arrogance.

2. A Lying Tongue (Deception)

God is a God of truth. He never lies, never deceives, never distorts reality. For that reason, a lying tongue is deeply offensive to Him. Lies corrupt trust, poison relationships, and turn speech—a gift meant to reflect truth—into an instrument of darkness.

Lying takes many forms. It may be blatant falsehood, subtle manipulation, half-truths, exaggeration, false impressions, or silence used deceptively. People lie to protect themselves, to gain advantage, to avoid consequences, or to shape how others perceive them. But every lie stands against the character of the God of truth.

For the believer, truthfulness is not optional. Honest speech is part of holy living. When our words are reliable, we reflect the faithfulness of God; when our words are false, we contradict the One we claim to serve.

3. Hands That Shed Innocent Blood (Violence)

This phrase speaks of unjust violence and the destruction of innocent life. It condemns the shedding of blood where no guilt deserves such treatment. Human life is sacred because man is made in the image of God. To treat innocent life lightly is to despise something God Himself has stamped with dignity.

This sin includes more than the public horror of murder. It reaches into the attitudes that nourish violence—hatred, cruelty, revenge, and hard-hearted disregard for others. Jesus taught that sinful anger and murderous hatred are deeply connected. The hand that strikes is often preceded by a heart that has already learned to despise.

God values life. His people therefore must resist cruelty, cherish justice, and refuse the spirit that delights in harm.

4. A Heart That Devises Wicked Plans (Corruption Within)

Here the text moves inward. Before evil appears in conduct, it often begins in intention. A heart that devises wicked plans is not merely tempted; it is actively designing sin. It uses thought, imagination, and strategy in the service of evil.

This is sobering because it reminds us that God judges not only visible actions but hidden motives. Many sins never become public only because there was no opportunity. Yet God sees the inward workshop of the soul—every plan, scheme, fantasy, and secret calculation.

A righteous life therefore requires more than external restraint. It requires inward cleansing. The heart must be governed by the Word of God, or it will become a factory of corruption.

5. Feet That Make Haste to Run to Evil (Eagerness for Sin)

This image portrays a person who is not hesitant in wrongdoing but eager for it. There is speed in the verse—an enthusiasm, a readiness, a willingness to rush toward evil. Such a person does not fall reluctantly; he runs willingly.

That distinction matters. There is a difference between a believer who stumbles and grieves over sin, and a person who delights in pursuing it. When the heart loves evil, the feet soon follow. Habits form, conscience dulls, and what once seemed serious begins to feel normal.

God hates this eager pursuit of wickedness because it reveals affection for what He forbids. Grace does not make us casual about sin; it makes us increasingly watchful against it.

6. A False Witness Who Breathes Out Lies (Destructive Speech)

This phrase expands the earlier reference to a lying tongue and points especially to lies that injure others. A false witness twists truth in a way that damages reputation, justice, and trust. The image of “breathing out lies” suggests that deceit flows naturally from such a person, as though dishonesty has become their native air.

False witness is especially grievous because it can destroy lives with words alone. Families, churches, friendships, and communities can be torn apart when truth is sacrificed. Slander, false accusation, malicious gossip, and deliberate misrepresentation all carry this destructive character.

God cares about truth not only because truth is right, but because lies devour people. The righteous person therefore guards his tongue carefully, knowing that speech can either protect life or ruin it.

7. One Who Sows Discord Among Brothers (Division)

The final item is striking. Among the sins listed, the one who sows discord among brothers is singled out with particular force. This refers to a person who spreads conflict, stirs suspicion, fuels offense, and fractures fellowship.

God loves peace, unity, and reconciliation among His people. Therefore He hates the work of the divider. Discord may be sown through gossip, manipulation, favoritism, whispering, insinuation, exaggeration, or the deliberate reopening of old wounds. It is possible to destroy unity without ever raising one’s voice.

This final sin is especially sobering because it shows that relational destruction matters greatly to God. The church is not a collection of isolated individuals but a body. To sow division among brethren is to attack what God intends to join together.

The Deeper Message of the Passage

Taken together, this list reveals a progression. It begins with inward disposition—pride and evil intention—moves to sinful speech and violent action, and ends in the destruction of community. Sin does not remain isolated. It grows. It moves from the heart to the mouth, from the mouth to the hands and feet, and from the individual to the fellowship of others.

In other words, Proverbs 6:16–19 is not simply a random list of offenses. It is a moral anatomy of human corruption. It exposes how deeply sin reaches and how destructive it becomes when left unchecked.

Application for Today

This passage calls us first to self-examination. Before we identify these sins in society, politics, or other people, we should ask whether traces of them remain in us. Do we harbor pride? Do we shade the truth? Do we entertain sinful plans? Do we run too quickly toward what dishonors God? Do our words injure? Do we stir unnecessary conflict?

It also calls us to active obedience. We must not only reject what God hates; we must pursue what God loves. Against haughty eyes, we cultivate humility. Against lying, we practice truthfulness. Against violence, we honor life. Against wicked scheming, we seek purity of heart. Against eagerness for evil, we pursue holiness. Against false witness, we use words faithfully. Against discord, we become peacemakers.

Such obedience is not produced by mere self-improvement. It flows from a heart changed by grace and continually shaped by the Spirit of God through the Word.

The Gospel Connection

This passage is severe, but it is not hopeless. In truth, every one of these sins exposes the fallen condition of humanity. We may not have committed them all in equal outward measure, but none of us can claim complete innocence before a holy God. Scripture condemns us before it heals us.

The good news is that Jesus Christ came not for the righteous, but for sinners. He died for the proud, the deceitful, the violent, the corrupt, and the divisive. At the cross, God’s hatred of sin and God’s love for sinners meet in perfect justice and mercy. Those who repent and trust in Christ are forgiven, cleansed, and made new.

The gospel does more than pardon the guilty. It transforms the heart. Those who belong to Christ are being remade so that they increasingly hate what God hates and love what God loves.

Conclusion

Proverbs 6:16–19 is a searching passage, but it is a needed one. It reminds us that holiness is not sentimental, truth is not optional, and peace is not trivial. God does not treat pride, deception, violence, corruption, and division as small matters—and neither should we.

May this text lead us to deeper humility, greater honesty, more careful speech, and a renewed commitment to peace. And where it exposes sin in us, may it also drive us to the Savior, whose grace is sufficient to forgive, cleanse, and transform.

 

© 2026 Steven Miller Ministries

Monday, March 23, 2026

Living as the Redeemed: A Call to Holiness and Enduring Faith, A Reflection on 1 Peter 1:13–25

 Living as the Redeemed: A Call to Holiness and Enduring Faith

An Expanded Reflection on 1 Peter 1:13–25 (ESV)

 

Introduction: The Mindset of the Redeemed

The Apostle Peter writes to believers who are scattered, pressured, and living as spiritual exiles in a hostile world. After unfolding the beauty and security of their salvation in the opening verses, he now shifts to the practical implications of that salvation.

Grace is not passive. It is transforming. It does not leave a believer unchanged—it reshapes the mind, redirects the heart, and reforms the life.

The Christian life is not merely about what we have escaped, but about what we are now called to become. The reality of redemption demands a response. This passage is a call to live with intentionality, holiness, reverence, love, and eternal perspective.

 

1. A Prepared Mind and a Fixed Hope (v.13)

Peter begins with a command that strikes at the center of spiritual life: the mind. “Prepare your minds for action.” The original language paints a vivid picture—like a man gathering his robes so he can run unhindered.

Spiritually, this means removing anything that hinders clarity, focus, and obedience. A distracted mind leads to a divided life. A disciplined mind produces a steadfast walk.

To be sober-minded is to be spiritually alert—not intoxicated by the world’s values, not numbed by comfort, and not distracted by temporary concerns.

Then Peter gives the anchor: “set your hope fully.” Not partially. Not occasionally. Fully.

Many believers struggle because their hope is divided—partly in God and partly in circumstances. But Peter calls for a complete reorientation. Our confidence must rest entirely in the future grace that will be revealed in Jesus Christ.

Right thinking leads to right living. A focused hope fuels faithful endurance.

 

2. A Call to Holiness (vv.14–16)

As “obedient children,” believers are no longer defined by their past ignorance. Before Christ, we were shaped by desires we did not fully understand—driven by sin, blinded to truth, and enslaved to patterns we could not break.

But now everything has changed.

We belong to God. And children reflect their Father.

Holiness is not merely about avoiding sin—it is about reflecting the character of God. It is a life set apart, marked by purity, devotion, and transformation.

Peter roots this command in the very nature of God: “Be holy, for I am holy.” This is not a suggestion. It is a calling.

Holiness touches every area of life:
- Our thoughts
- Our speech
- Our relationships
- Our private decisions

It is not perfection, but it is pursuit. It is not legalism, but it is transformation. A holy life is evidence of a changed heart.

 

3. Living with Reverent Fear (v.17)

Peter introduces a tension that must be held carefully: God is both Father and Judge.

This produces a reverent fear—not terror, but awe-filled respect. It is the awareness that our lives are lived before the eyes of a holy God who judges impartially.

Casual Christianity collapses under this truth.

We are reminded that we are “sojourners” or exiles. This world is temporary. When we forget that, we begin to live for comfort rather than calling, for approval rather than obedience.

Reverence guards the heart from drifting. It anchors us in eternity and keeps our walk serious, intentional, and aligned with God’s will.

 

4. The Cost of Redemption (vv.18–21)

Peter now draws our attention to the foundation of everything: redemption.

We were not saved with perishable things like silver or gold. No earthly currency could purchase our freedom. The price was infinitely greater—the precious blood of Christ.

Jesus is described as a spotless lamb, pointing back to the sacrificial system of the Old Testament. But unlike those sacrifices, His was final, perfect, and sufficient.

This was not an emergency plan. Christ was foreknown before the foundation of the world. The cross was always God’s design.

When we truly grasp the cost of our salvation, sin loses its attraction. It becomes unthinkable to treat lightly what cost Christ everything.

A shallow view of sin comes from a shallow view of the cross. But when we see the price clearly, we begin to live differently—with gratitude, humility, and reverence.

 

5. A Life of Sincere Love (vv.22–23)

Salvation produces something unmistakable: love.

Peter emphasizes that this love must be sincere, earnest, and pure. It is not superficial or convenient—it is sacrificial and genuine.

This kind of love flows from a transformed heart. We have been “born again,” not through perishable means, but through the living and abiding Word of God.

New birth produces new life:
- New desires
- New priorities
- New relationships

A believer cannot remain indifferent toward others. Love is not optional—it is evidence.

This love stretches us. It requires forgiveness, patience, humility, and sacrifice. But it reflects Christ and testifies to the reality of the gospel.

 

6. The Eternal Word vs. Temporary Life (vv.24–25)

Peter closes with a powerful contrast between the temporary and the eternal.

Human life is like grass—it flourishes briefly and then fades. Strength, beauty, influence, and even life itself are all fleeting.

But the Word of the Lord stands forever.

This Word is not abstract—it is the gospel that was preached to us. The very message that brought us life is eternal and unchanging.

This gives us perspective. We do not build our lives on what fades—we anchor them in what lasts.

When eternity governs our thinking, it transforms our priorities, our decisions, and our values.

 

Conclusion: Living in Light of Redemption

This passage calls believers out of casual, comfortable Christianity and into a life of intentional holiness and deep devotion.

Because of Christ:
- Our minds are disciplined
- Our lives are set apart
- Our walk is reverent
- Our redemption is costly
- Our love is genuine
- Our foundation is eternal

The question is not merely whether we believe the gospel, but whether we are living in light of it.

You were redeemed. You were born again. You were called to holiness.

So live like it.

Not to earn salvation—but because you already possess it.

 

©2026 Steven Miller Ministries

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